How To Choose An Urn

Choosing an urn can feel overwhelming, especially during an emotional time. Here's a guide to help you select an urn that suits your needs and honors your loved one:

1. Determine the Purpose of the Urn

  • Burial: Choose a durable material like metal, stone, or wood that complies with cemetery regulations. Some cemeteries require an urn vault.
  • Display: Look for an urn that complements your home décor. Materials like ceramic, glass, or decorative woodwork are popular for display.
  • Scattering: Consider a lightweight, biodegradable urn designed for scattering ashes.
  • Keepsake: Smaller keepsake urns allow family members to keep a portion of the ashes. Cremation jewelry is another option.
  • Travel: If you plan to travel with the urn, ensure it is TSA-approved (typically non-metallic and x-ray-friendly).

2. Know the Capacity Needed

Cremation urns come in various sizes. A general rule of thumb is one cubic inch of space for every pound of body weight. For example, a 200-pound person would require a 200-cubic-inch urn. Smaller urns (keepsake or sharing urns) hold smaller portions of ashes.

3. Consider the Material

  • Wood: Warm, classic, and versatile; available in various finishes.
  • Metal: Durable and sleek, often made of brass, stainless steel, or aluminum.
  • Ceramic/Glass: Beautiful and artistic but more fragile.
  • Biodegradable: Eco-friendly options for water or earth burial.

4. Think About Personalization

Personalized urns with engravings (names, dates, quotes, or images) can make the urn more meaningful. Some urns even allow photo frames or custom designs.

5. Match Your Budget

Urns vary in price based on material, size, and craftsmanship. Determine your budget beforehand and prioritize what matters most to you.

6. Follow Cultural or Religious Practices

Some cultures or religions have specific requirements or traditions for cremation urns. Ensure your choice aligns with your family’s beliefs.

7. Seek Professional Guidance

If you're unsure, consult the funeral home or cremation provider. Companies like your Never Forget You specialize in cremation products and can help you find the right option.

If you'd like, we can suggest specific urns or styles based on your preferences.